Reaching an orgasm is not something that all women can do easily while all men can. There is a very certain distinction between the way a man?s and a woman?s organisms are built and frequently it is not taken into consideration.
Reaching an orgasm is not something that all women can do easily while all men can. There is a very certain distinction between the way a man’s and a woman’s organisms are built and frequently it is not taken into consideration.
All the films and books tend to make us believe that things are that simple – he comes, she comes and everyone is happy. This is what we grow up believing and in life things are far from being like this.
The worst thing, however, that young girls also grow up thinking that if they cannot reach an orgasm, then, there is something very wrong with them. Many of them have no idea that this is normal. In earlier years it was even believed that woman cannot come at all.
However, things surely have improved since then. Today women do not feel so bad and at a loss as they used to and there are a lot of articles that can explain why they still do not feel anything that is so teasingly portrayed in books and films.
There have been a lot of researches and thanks to them now we know that actually women are not only able to reach an orgasm but that they can have multiple orgasms. However, certain circumstances are needed for this. Frequently, they presuppose a partner who cares and loves and who is not illiterate about sex and is skillful in it.
In men it is much simpler because in their case the presence of romantic feelings mostly is not necessary. They can reach an orgasm with any woman – their physical response is more automatic to some extent. Surely enough it does not refer to all the men but still it is more a rule. Women do need love and appreciation in order to reach an orgasm.
Therefore, if a woman has got problems with coming, her partner can take some steps in order to try improving the situation. There are tips for better arousal such as stimulation of a clitoris and oral sex and so on. It is important to make woman feel that she is cared for and that is desirable. Besides, there are a lot of other ways to help a woman to reach an orgasm and they all can be found on the Internet if needed. It is just essential to understand that this is not an illness or abnormality and that it can be improved as well.